There are certain things in life which if we would know at the right age would help us prevent mistakes in the past. They say, “Experience is a brutal teacher”, with which I firmly agree.
With every passing day, We are learning something from people and nature around us. At times, we are over sensitive towards our friendships and other relationships. There are time
As when our loved ones start keeping a distance from us because of insecurities and other reasons which makes us feel low. As a result, we either force them to stay or take the blame on ourselves when in reality, nobody is to be blamed!
We need to learn to let go. I don’t say it’s gonna be easy but it’s surely gonna be worth it. There was girl who saw a radiant rose in a garden and plucked it to make her flower pot look more beautiful. As she put the flower in the vase, after few days it died. She asked her mom and she replied: “You can’t force a flower to thrive somewhere it doesn’t belong to.”
Isn’t this with people too? You can’t force someone to stay. All you can do is tell them what they mean to you and leave the rest on them to decide because forced relationships don’t survive,they die.
We must always remember this statement:
The ones who want to stay, always will no matter how hard you push them away but the ones who want to leave, always will, no matter how hard you try to make them stay.